Rugby Retard

Why is it that things always start getting interesting at the end of semester? Absolutely nothing has happened all year (except for aforementioned current beautiful boyfriend) and now, in the LAST week of semester, my failed rugby player ex boyfriend is trying to sweet talk (using that term very loosely) his way back into my life.

Like I said before he's been in Harvard for the last 8 months doing research for a Masters and just got home last week. He's been texting me asking what my problem is and why am I treating him like we're not friends. He said, and I quote,
"We are always gonna be close and you'll have to let him (my boyfriend) know that we are still gonna be friends. And he is gonna have to get used to seeing me around, cause I still care about you and I'm not gonna let you shut me out completely. I'm not gonna try and steal you off him but I at least want to be able to be around you".
This coming from the man who made an hearty attempt to turn our relationship into a series of one night stands. Oh and the reason why he was saying all this is because the first time I saw him since he got back was when I was waiting for my boyfriend to go for tea, and I hadn't gotten round to telling him that ex boyfriend rugby loser was back working in the building. In fact I'd never told him he existed to tell the truth. SO you can imagine that he wouldn't be delighted if he came downstairs to see me being best mates with some random guy he doesn't know only to find out that it's an ex I never told him about who is now back working in the same building as me. I know I'd be a bit weird if he did that!! So I was kind of stand offish with ex rugby loser and he got annoyed about it and sent the above message.

SO I went to see him in his new (crap) office in our building today to set him straight. I quoted the message to him and he basically said I mistook the meaning of the message. I may be wrong but there's not a whole lot ways you can misunderstand a message like that. Told him to back off and how dare he come home after so long away and try to dictate terms of any sort of relationship to me OR tell me that he has rights to me over my boyfriend. That's just not on!! He was all like, "Ugh I didn't mean it like that". Yeah sure you didn't...